Entries from November 2009 ↓

The Fat Fight

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Robin Marantz Henig and Jess Zimmerman (of Dove’s Campaign for Real Beauty Fame) wrote a piece about bodies, fat and the mother-daughter relationship.

It pushed about every button I have. I’ve been in an internal debate with myself ever since I read it last week: as the mother, as the daughter, as the writer, as the health conscious, as the overweight one, as the girl advocate, as the typically aesthetic one, and as the spiritual being in a physical body.

I’ll encourage you to have your own emotional reaction when you read The Fat Fight on Oprah.com.

I invite you to come back to The Girl Revolution and tell me what you think. I’d love to hear what other readers, mothers and daughters think about the fat issue.

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Brick Walls

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There appear to be a great many still-existing Brick Walls in front of girls and women. Take this article Guys Still Hog Role of Intellectual Heavy Weight, which examines my professional frustrations.

My own Brick Wall is generally in the form of The Family Budget. Sometimes I, unfairly, imagine my husband as the guard dog protecting the wall.

When we come on brick walls we need to ask ourselves some questions and teach our daughters to do that same:

Scale it?

Have someone give me a lift?

Hack away at it little by little?

Tunnel under it?

Go around it?

Jump over it?

Chisel a hole through it?

Bomb it with dynamite?

Melt it?

Deconstruct it?

Remove it?

Climb it?

Who can help me get over it?

Who can I take with me?

You get the picture.

Rethink your Brick Walls.

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CCFC Guide to Commercial-Free Holidays

Ainsley’s Christmas List this year is simply a list of every commercial she saw inside an hour. No joke.

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If your child’s Letter-to-Santa reads like this, download Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhoods’ Holiday Guide.

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The Girl Revolution On Oprah

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Oprah’s last season is next year, 2010-2011.

That means I only have 18 months to get my book, The Girl Revolution published and featured on The Oprah Winfrey Show.

18 months.

Pray. Send Good Vibes. Call in Favors. Conjure Miracles. Attract Your Ass Off.

Please.

18 months.

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Fight About “Becky”

When I asked a teenager what started a recent vicious girl-fight at the high school, she said one girl called another girl “Becky.”

She didn’t want to tell me why it was bad to be called Becky.

So I Googled it and up came these lovely lyrics by Plie.

My first thought was this: What did this dickhead do to deserve Becky?

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