Entries from January 2010 ↓

Avatar is Art, Female Characters Empowering for Women and Girls

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Yesterday was one of those rare days when I witnessed a staggering work of genius.

Astoundingly, I witnessed two.

One of the works of genius is likely to change all media forever.

Of course I mean James Cameron’s Avatar. It is Epic.

In The Girl Revolution terms it was startlingly beautiful with a mixture of female roles any parent should be proud to expose their daughters to: the Navi female lead was attractive but not hyper-sexual, instead she was a warrior and hunter and in line to be the next village spiritual leader. The head human scientist was science fiction genre-queen Segourney Weaver, the human female supporting actress was a fighter pilot, the village spiritual leader was a wise and holy matriarch.

The typical female film archetypes are nowhere to be found in this epic film. The village whore was not cast, the promiscuous girl was not doing it with the football player so the audience could catch a glimpse of her boobs, the dumb blond was not featured, the submissive wife was nowhere to be found, the powerless and trapped beauty in need of saving is missing and my friends, there was not a single evil stepmother or conniving man-stealer.

The sexuality of the film was authentic. By this I mean, there was no gratuitous ogling, fondling, crass, boys-will-be-boys, everyone-just-wants-to-get-laid, casual-sex-is-fun, porno-inspired, beer-commercial-craptastic, look-at-the-plastic DDDs, Oh-Edward-I-want-to-damn-my-soul-and-die-to-spend-eternity-with-you, prince-come-save-me-for-I-am-helpless “romantic” scenarios.

There was a singular sex/romance scene in the entire drama in which the male and female leads chose each other after several months of non-sexual intimacy and spiritually joined together at the Navi’s holiest Temple. The scene was not graphic nor porno-graphic, but very loving and intimate. It ended with the words, “We are mated for life.”

As a creative-type myself, it was a sheer pleasure to experience the film. I consider it of high honor to witness an artist’s work of creative genius. Creative energy poured out in a spiritual way, as in this film, is even better. I had read about Cameron’s visualizing the Navi and the Pandora world since the 1970s in a New Yorker article and my interest was peaked. My main attraction to the film was to see what 30 years of meditating, expanding, working on idea would culminate in. The sheer scale of the film is tantalizing. The attention to detail is intimidating. The technology he invented to make the film is creation in high-tech genius. The visual beauty is so great that several times I gasped in awe and wonder.

The film is so surreal you can taste it, smell it, touch it. There is a palpable and quite lovely energy to the film one can absorb if one is so inclined. I am.

Jeremy, my husband, and I are debating whether to allow Ainsley to see it. I want to expose her to creative and inspiring genius while it’s in the theaters, with the 3D glasses, for full effect. DVD will not do this film justice. It will be like turning a pop-up book into a flat postcard. Avatar will be this generation’s Star Wars. I believe it will be culturally significant, become part of the lexicon of world culture, weave its way into our speech and casual conversations, develop a following of people who parade around in blue and have Navi conventions, and change Halloween costumes forever. I don’t want her to miss it. It will be culturally significant in a way that someone who forgoes the experience will be missing cues, comments and humor. I don’t want her to miss an opportunity to witness creative genius. Avatar is Art – rare, precious and inspiring.

Jeremy disagrees. He feels it is too emotionally intense for an 8 year old. He feels the themes are rather mature, the emotions run extremely high, and it will be overwhelming or frightening for her.

Oh, the other work of staggering genius is the book Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide. Come back next week because we’ll be talking a lot about it. It will have a profound impact on our work here at The Girl Revolution.

Sexual Harassment

One of the high school students, I was at a computer by the door and he was out in the hall, just blew kisses at me.

He then mouthed the words, Call Me!

I gave him a disproving look and turned away to ignore him.

I feel I should do something about this.

What?

Four Generation Makeover

My parents have been in town. Very exciting and fun for all of us.

We went to the best hairdresser in all of East Texas, Crystal, and got a Four Generation Makeover.

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My aunt, Janice.

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My grandmother, Viola. (I think she looks sooo hip!)

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My mom Susie. She’s rocking the Paula Deen look.

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Me, Tracee. I can’t thank myself enough for going short and sophisticated. I call this last year, My Year of Good Hair. An artist for a hairdresser changes everything. Self-image, self-esteem, and confidence. What I project out into the world has most assuredly changed – for the better – since my hair grew up.

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And of course, Ainsley. Who we treated as “one of the girls” on our Salon Day and shopping trips. She’s just stunning.

Email me and I’ll give you Crystal’s number.

Pantry Politics

Knaamys (pro. names) of the 20th Century

By TRACEE SIOUX

The most hysterical thing about substitute teaching are the names of the kids.

Not the names themselves . . .

But, the reaction of the kids when you phonetically read their names.

They snicker. They talk to you like YOU’RE the stupid one for mispronouncing their names when you call roll.

It takes about everything I have not to say out loud, “Its not MY fault your mother doesn’t know how to spell. I read the word correctly.”

What on earth possessed the parents of the 20th Century to misspell and “cutesify” their baby’s names?

What on earth possessed me to do this to myself with the name Tracee Sioux? As a writer, its all well and good – memorable, interesting.

As a substitute teacher, it’s just annoying. I’m so over explaining it: where it came from, whether I’m a Native American, how to pronounce it. Seriously, I’m almost considering taking my husband’s nice, normal name so I can stop having the same conversation every single time I meet someone or introduce myself. Why did I think this would be an interesting conversation to have for the rest of my life? Only another 60 years to go.

Note to parents of 21st Century parents – if you want to name your kid Jennifer – just name her Jennifer and not Gwennipher. If you want to name your kid Simone try not to throw in a silent Y at the end.